Reasonable People
Two news items struck me in recent weeks. At the risk of delving into politics ...
- The California Supreme Court ruled that the state's same-sex marriage ban violates the state constitution.
- Mildred Loving died at age 68. Along with her husband and the help of the ACLU, Ms. Loving won a U.S. Supreme Court ruling that said that Virginia's law banning interracial marriage violated the U.S. Constitution.
What does this have to do with drastic career change?
George Bernard Shaw wrote, “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world. The unreasonable man persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. All progress, therefore, depends upon the unreasonable man.”
I would argue that trying to adapt the world to oneself is itself a reasonable course of action. The Economist obituary reports that Ms. Loving just wanted to walk down the street of her own home town with her husband's arm around her. Reasonable. Ditto couples who want to get on with their lives and their households on what they believe to be the same terms as everybody else.
Similarly, it is utterly reasonable to expect a work schedule that allows time for sleep and exercise, credentialing systems that lend themselves to competence not power plays, and career paths that recognize the reality that people's growth can be evolutionary (even revolutionary) rather than linear.